Overcoming fear and judgement to find connection
Overcoming fear and judgement to find connection
Everyone is an artist
Everyone has a unique charm
Drawn In asks 1000 people to draw each other,
to experience the joy of committing ink to paper,
to laugh at an accidental pig nose.
We risk failure and find unexpected beauty,
on the page, and in each other
Drawn In is about:
Challenging people to step outside of their comfort zone and take a risk to create something beautiful.
Most natural human expression - art, humour, playfulness - commonly involves a perceived risk.
- "what if I do a crap drawing and am laughed at"
- "what if I make a mistake and people think I'm a crap singer"
- "will people think my song is crap"
- "what if my joke isn't funny?"
- "what if he doesn't want to talk with me?"
- "what if I lose this thin facade that I'm a perfect person"
hmmm. most of these involve... Judgement. self judgement and perceived risk of judgement by others...
In school our art was judged.
"C" "A-" "F" "Pass" "Fail" "Merit" "Excellence"
Often when we see art, we judge it.
"Yes, I like the colors" "Erghhh, what a horrendous painting!" "This toilet isn't art!"
Often when we see people, we judge them.
"Oh, he's so handsome" "He's getting fat" "She puts on too much makeup" "He seems like an air-head"
We commonly live in a world of judgement.
So no surprise that we often pass heavy judgement on our own creations, and fear the judgement of others.
If they are like we often are, they probably will judge!
What to do, then?
Let go of self judgement.
Enjoy whatever comes out.
When the self judgement is gone, a heavy weight is lifted.
A freedom and lightness is found.
When self judgement is gone, the judgement of others doesn't feel like an attack.
We can view their judgements objectively.
"Hey mate, did you learn to draw in the dark"
[ With non-judgemental, self-assured calm & sass ]
"Hey mate, did you want to try? Here's a pen. You can draw me. 2 minutes. Let's go?"
I'm in a bubble.
I'm super priviledged.
Most people I know went to University
Most people I know will vote in the upcoming General Election
Most people I know don't eat white bread
I'm totally disconnected with huge parts of Aotearoa.
I better understand a middle class Spanish person than a Pacifica person from Porirua.
This project is an opportunity to have some fun and open an honest vulnerable space with people from outside my bubble. It's easier to have a laugh and talk about inequality after doing hilariously bad drawings of each other.
I'm Peter. You can find out more about me at my website ThroughTheLoop.nz.
The project has been constantly evolving - shaped by every person who draws, every person who doesn't draw for some reason, and by discussions with participants, friends and family about how to make it an even more beautiful experience.
Ange and Gabrielle have been collecting drawings too!
I love doodling and creating - drawings, music, dance, etc. I love the creation and appreciation of beauty, in any form.
I started drawing friends, and noticed it was always hilarious, and that we felt a lot more connected after. So I started getting other friends to draw each other. That was heaps of fun too.
So I thought I'd try and get strangers to draw each other.
On my train commute one morning, I asked a couple of random people:
"Hey... um. So... Do you two... uh... want to draw each other?"
They looked at me strangely and politely said
"No."
Hmmm. I suspected my invitation wasn't clear or strong enough.
I decided that I needed to fully commit to the idea, so that other people could commit also.
So I arbitrarily decided that the project would be to gather 1000 drawings. Big enough that it felt like an epic project. People seem to like epic, ambitious things. So I created one.
I tried it again on the train with two strangers near each other.
"Kia ora! I'm getting 1000 people to draw each other quickly. Do you have two minutes to do a simple sketch?"
They look slightly baffled but also impressed this time.
"Um... ok?"
"Great! Heres paper and pens. 3... 2... 1... go! You have two minutes!"
Woohoo! The project is underway!
From reactions and responses over the next 500 drawings, the changes I made were: